Inconsiderate neighbour

The picture not clear to show the smoke blowing towards my house.. it's so stuffy!!

Merry Christmas

Year end again.. we expect christmas, new year and.. BONUS!

How many months you have?

or it's more appropriate to ask: Does your company give bonus?

some ppl no work to do, they cry. we got lots of job to do, also cry. that day my GM told a supplier no bonus this year.. oh no.. jaw drops.. sure bo?

last weekend attended the HDB D&D at The Fullerton Hotel.. sponsored by company, $200 per pax.. don't play play.. that's really a big sum!! the course is so-so.. but the show is hilarious!! the theme is Shanghai Night.. lots of ladies dress in cheong-sum, man dress like 上海滩老大.. 5 departments from HDB giving out the performance like singing, dancing, band and drama.. the funniest one is the show of 上海滩.. 超搞笑. just didn't expect the head or the officers look stern in days.. but when come to show.. they can 霍出去! The special guest is Patricia Mok.. so skinny !!

I guess most of you out there are having holiday mood and less work now?

for those going out for vacation, enjoy enjoy enjoy ! don't forget my souveniors.. hee hee

for those as busy as me, enjoy the holiday with works.. bo bian..

Merry christmas and happy new year everyone!!

那时...已十年了

上一回的筹款晚宴，十大义演，剪彩人，鸣锣人
是10年前的事了

毕业10年了，人在外地，确实渐渐遗忘
但这华教义演的舞台，仍然孜孜不倦地为华教募款直到今天

不知道是有其父必有其女，还是相反
当年，爸忙着工作，我忙学校活动还搞什么筹款
现在，我忙着工作，爸忙社团活动也搞这个筹款
原来这种魄力是遗传的！
我们呐，就因为这样，常常去吃筹款晚宴

啊，好怀念当年的我。。和你们。
当时那股拼劲儿，魄力和凝聚力
已经慢慢在消失了


美丽的回忆。

09.11.08 南兴华小。Tiger华教义演

很受uncle aunty欢迎的黄一飞与喵喵组合

日子一样过

Schedule – meeting – delay – target – rush – discrepancy – coordination – defects – rectification – production – delivery – progress

These are words I'm facing everyday… and challenging. Never can expect what is going to be handled the actual day. Once starts work, calls will flow in, additional works will pile up. battling each day with positive minds, never think of running away... I faced it, I handled it as I always believe there’s nothing can’t be solved.

To keep surviving, attack when in advantage, defence when in disadvantage, as long as it’s a statement of FACT. Though I’m still a subcon in a meeting, I’m not scared whether you are consultant or main-con...moreover, only a work..

But there’s one time.. I was hit down by a super 鸟人. So what if he is a director from consultant? 自视过高，鼻子长在眼睛上，鸟话一堆，越听越想丢些狗屎过去。身为一个 director说出伤人的话，只是显出你的幼稚和无知。Though my confident was crashed by him, but I learnt from that, I returned a smile to him as I see no points to continue the conversation with him....

That day a PM said I look so “秀气” as most of the lady in construction line are boyish. Chey, lady in construction also go for perm hair, short skirt and high heels lo!! What’s the different of us? Another 鸟人

I’m a supplier, a subcon and I don’t have the luxury to have loud voice. Instead we have to do lots of reports, update lots of progress to all the parties. Each time, I have to mask myself up to be strong and tough. Damn tired!! I wish I won’t be a supplier anymore!! I want to be the owner!! The one that have the last say!! Even be a small small engineer but still representing the highest hierarchy.

最近脑袋很涨, 太多东西得处理.
对于一个工作满6天的我来说, 仅剩的空余时间并不多.
希望一切顺心顺意, 那烦恼就少点.

我的busy是...

"才发现, 之前热腾腾的Milo, 想喝第二口时, 却已经凉了."

是早上进office后的真实写照.


how about you?

会心一笑

Silver Medal for M'sia

Last night all of us had our early dinner then standby in front of TV for the Badminton Men's Single's Final.

Though M'sian Lee Chong Wei unable to beat China Super Dan, but at least he done his best to get into FINAL.

And Lee got his Olympic Silver medal with 12-21, 8-21.

We should be proud of him !

上上周末的事

在极度忙碌的工作之余
我们去HK疯狂地
买东西，吃东西。。。
。。。买东西，吃东西

Summary一下

发记甜品的芒果pancake, 芒果糯米卷很特别咯
并不会因为吃太多甜品而感到罪恶的。



除了去茶楼吃点心外，
也尝了很普通的通心粉，公仔面，猪扒包，
还有“世上最好味的旦挞”
晚餐也吃了烧鹅，但不是那排长龙的镛记。



路走很多，脚很痛
天气很热，人很多
衣服很美，买不多
但买的东西却很够力
回程大家都满载而归
飞机坐的很不舒服，头很痛
凌晨3点躺在床上
脑袋是累的，但是脚板的细胞却超活跃！
塞利啦！想睡却睡不了

总结下来
罪恶至极的。。。
就是它啦！！
这是初体验，感觉很深刻。
这样的店，女人多到数不清
情形就像上市场买菜一样
“我要看这个，我要看那个”
那种环境下，你是整个融入没有价值观的世界中
不管价钱多少，只是一个没有感觉的figure
然后非得挑一个满足地走出店外

自我反省中。

做的还不好

昨天早上，有小小吓到。

7.30am，在等候过交通灯之前
隔壁柱着雨伞站立的白发阿嫲
竟然在我眼前
整个人向后倾倒下
而且后脑勺倒在地上还清楚听见那清脆的KOK声音

真的吓到！
那2秒钟，我呆立原地
隐约记得自己曾经冲口喊出一声

我以为阿嫲晕倒
向前看她的眼睛，半眯很恍惚
后来她的手向上仰
我赶快扶上她的手臂
后面再走来几个年轻人
合力把阿嫲扶起来。

阿嫲站起来后，喃喃自语
我们问她好吗？要回家吗？
她含糊地用广东话回答，好，多谢

我很担心勒，不知道会不会伤到脑
因为那个声音真的太震撼了！
后来有个阿姨走前来，问发生了什么事
她是认识阿嫲的
阿嫲说她不舒服，跌倒了，想回家
我们把阿嫲如何跌倒告诉她
她就扶着阿嫲往回走了

我继续路程往MRT走
心还是仆仆跳地
如果当时只有我一个人，我应该怎么做？
如果当时阿嫲真的有事，我可以做什么？
为什么当时停在交通灯前的车辆，没有伸出援手？
对于面对这种Emergency的时刻
我还是没有很好的situation awareness
公司里每次有工人受伤，我连伤口也不敢看
一旦发生这种事，总会有男人走在前头去解决

当我们把阿嫲扶起来后
我无法冷静思考要如何慰问阿嫲

一句“要回家吗？”我也没能在当下想到

真的没话说

如果你是那位抱着好奇之心
而点击了我在前面第3个post
那则我认为很妙的事

那。。 也许，可能
你就是那么Heng。。。。

不知道，今天中奖的那个人是你吗？

我就没有那么幸运！
very "am duih"..

记宽中Rojak Uncle

今天听家里两个小的说起
心里确实惊讶了一下
说起这位Rojak uncle
在Stulang Laut屹立不倒了多少年啊?
记我认识他,也至少13年了吧!

想起高一那年,开始留校,
头头的刷姑就慢慢变得贪玩
这里逛那里哈拉
因为圈子里有位美丽的台湾妹
就顺理成章地大胆起来
话匣子打开,我也跟着扮熟.哈
记忆中的uncle, 很开朗
喜欢和学生打成一片
Rojak 只炒油条也很ok

高二那年, uncle还帮我们在食堂义卖
我负责剪油条
手指简直就觉得要断掉了
这小则义卖的故事
有记载在理3历史散文著称的班刊里

贵为宽中rojak uncle,
可以说宽中有多少人,就有多少人认识他对吧?
有听过他上过Astro的节目
也算是JB的代表人物哦
他就如此驻守在宽中的校门外
如此日复一日地
为多少白色校服的学生们
送上一日课程后, 小小的甜点.

如今, rojak uncle走了,
边疆墙外, 再也看不见他的身影
也看不见宽中生们手上拎着rojak的景象了.

有点为难

信已经在手上了
却交不出去

大半年过了!

这半年来，就写了仅12个post,　真是破记录.
不可以这样， 开始了就要延续．
我要努力下去．

在上个月PC show grab 到一个 best deal
NEC - 13.3” - $1299
小巧玲珑，方便使用．
Steffi 问起是不是以后会update more post
我说看心情.　
现在不想有的没的都写
部分原因是时间被工作占据大部分
剩下的时间我也有点懒惰．

一周里除了应付site meetingsSSss
部分精力还要应付paper warSss
就是有些人那么空闲，一个email cc 来cc 去
还有电话指示我要怎么写,　浅词用意必须慎重
Defense points要attach with proofs
跟xx board 有工作往来，paperworks 不止要好
还得具备一流的writing skills, 不然bullets shoot 来shoot去
一个不留神，就死无塟身之地.
有时候真不知道老板是给我薪水的人还是什么board的Engineers

其实不能有太多抱怨
因为有人feedback说这个地方是我的出气筒
不是这样的咯， 我并不想地.

说说上周末回kampong喝堂弟的喜酒
不在大酒店在学校礼堂宴请40席,
当然是为了热闹，karaok和好料满满的酒菜咯
这个大家族啊，就是喜欢搞排场．

Hm..台上的两颗心,　Eric san, idea for your next project?

还有更妙的事.．
本人懒惰写,　如果有兴趣,
欢迎点击这里来满足你的好奇心, HAHA!
这种时候,每个人就会博大大的咯,
结果中到乱!
Too bad, 我没有那个luck!!

好像有很多重点没有被别人update 到
你们的脚步走的有点快了哟, 我追不上
看来, 是时候 meet 了,　朋友们．

New family member

Deng ~ Deng ~ Deng ~~~

This is our new family member

The Honda Accord 2.4

Titanium with black leather seat

Spacious.. but I have not try on the driver seat yet

期待-ing.. dunno dad allow me for that a not. hmm..

Here comes the Honda..

there goes my 初学战车Kembara

hm.. i better stick with my tiny Toyota Vios

我们都来自Tuas Bay Drive

6月8号那天到Bukit Batok的Home Team Club给小小的Ethan庆生

但是这位little prince一直在呼呼大睡.

这场聚会, 也是和以前的久同事聚首

有2年前离开的, 有刚离职的, 也有现任的

来来去去就分几个batch了

我是属于从头到尾都认识的..

虽然说同事很难以朋友来对待

但因为职场关系, 要有个女同事真的很难

所以特别珍惜可以谈得来的Admin, account dep的女同事

因为有她们, 我还能够在茶余饭后聊八卦!!

不然就是逃离冰冷的二楼到楼下, 让我听她们的complaints

有些同事就只能当同事, 但我们不受office politics的影响

都是朋友, 偶尔碰面updates彼此

最后

有个问题, 我也希望尽快给自己找到答案

"yiqi, 什么时候到你给信?"

some updates

The rental contract was due 2 days ago. Have been bargaining with landlord since last month, his new offer was an increment of $500 per month. We are so sad to hear that. He said the agents been calling him whether to look for new tenants. But he prefers to give the priority back to us whether to extend or not. We knew the market rate has been madly accountable like that and we can only try to bargain and hopefully landlord can be more “kind-hearted”. Instead of going round and around for new place, we continue to stay here with a raise of $400 per month. Uh~ so pain-hearted!

We can get angry over the greediness of people, we can feel the unfair justification of price rate, we can complaint everything under the roof, but what can we do in the end? We still have to bear with the trend of market. If you don’t want, there are other people who want it. That’s the real world. Everything $$ first.

I was promoted when I back to work after my ROM. You may quote it 双喜临门, but I don’t feel happy at all. When you are one level up, you suppose to have assistances downstream right? But it doesn’t happen here. Last time is one Mgr up and one Egr down, now the only Egr become asst Mgr, still the 2 person in the department, does it make any differences?

From what I see, they just use this trick in order to persuade someone to stay back with the company. Not only loaded, but over-loaded. 20 projects! I heard from a long services colleague that company never reach such a PEAK like right now. Nobody can cope with the existing works now, when being pushed and pressurized, there comes frustration, emotionally imbalance and the working atmosphere is terribly tensioned! We are not man-power ready to handle so many projects at same time! The inadequacy capability of the company… so disappointed.

Mostly I need to attend meeting everyday. After few hours spending on the journey and meeting, still need to spend more times on replying the emails and paperwork. The work keeps piling up like snowballs, so scary!! It is not easy to sit down in the meeting room facing with whoever project directors lah, project managers lah.. bla bla.. everyone is acting bossy and giving instruction, since they are the authority. For me, I’m just like watching a show, see how those upstream personnel expressing their power in chasing progresss, TALKING ONLY. Some ppl just like to comment and comment, so what if u are holding those titles. 装腔作势.

Met some real gentleman in main-con, some very nasty with words, some 笑里藏刀的奸人, some trying to bully me when I’m always the only lady in most of the site meeting, but sorry loh.. you mean to me, I will mean to you in return of courtesy one loh. Real difficult for me to stand on alone out there and I gotta act tough!!

Take a break first.

Photos are ready!

I spent some time to do a slideshow for you guys to view!!

Also attached a link for you guys to download the photos!

The loading really challenging my patient! ha... enjoy it

View here

ROM photos in progress

I’m tied up with the works after the ROM and really no time to arrange the photos immediately for you guys.. ya.. I know you all are waiting to see it! Well.. the photo sizes are relatively too big and I’m in the process of resizing it in order to upload faster, else I dunno how long time it will takes for upload-i-n-g.

The photos will be ready to share after the weekend ~

Do u think he is nice?

front look like leopard with giant nose

rear look 又圆又翘

Tyres also big sizes

How much it cost?

His name is Bentley,owned by my big boss..


~~ that's really wealthy........

Thanks

emhem.. I must express my gratitude to those who left comments in my previous post.. be it encouragement or "counter encouragement" comments

well the slimming centre that gave me such bad impression is LWM.. I had read some comments from the forums and it's true that this centre is unable to provide good impression to customer.. so i won't take their words very hard lah.. what serious? i believe everyone have this kind of body problem like what they mentioned one..

thanks for sharing few ways of getting slim. oh ya.. would like to ask what kind of doctor to see as you mentioned? curious too ~ don't mind pls share here

I still eat wat i like to eat.. just reduce the serving ..keke.. anywhere.. lossing weight should be a gradually process, and be it in a healthy way. hopes all the ladies out there to be cheerful for what you are now.. ^_^

and i must say that.. i'm not that fat loh.. LOL!!

Out of curiosity – experience sharing

I had done something out of curiosity in order to understand.

First time step into a slimming centre not long ago to “know more about the treatment”. I wanna share the experience with you.

Before any consultant giving their beautiful talk they will ask for your IC for “1st-timer” registration. Then they will request u for weight & height measurement, follow by taking down yr particulars, some questionnaire about your occupation, meal habit..etc and lastly, which portion do u target for the treatment.

Then, they will require you to do a body measurement including thigh, hip, waist, arm..etc. Then they start to point out what is the problem for the individual portion. Waoh, seems like every part of my body got problem like 水肿, loose musle, fats, cellulite.. blabla bla..

This slimming centre only using different ampoules to direct apply on the targeted portion.. so u may expect the treatment in few routine circle of water detention, detox, fats burning, muscle toning.. etc..

I asked about the price. SHOCK MAN!! She introduces me to take up a package that cost $9999 for full body treatment!!! SIAO AR !!!! I’m not a super over-weight person and yet need to spend that MUCH in order to get rid a few KG?!?! Doesn’t make sense at all!!

"Can I take a cheaper package?"

"Can, but only a few treatment will not make any diferences to you since your condition is so serious"

........................serious? ?!?!?!

I began to say let me consider first in order to cabut. But these 2 ladies take turns to hard sell one loh.. trying every means to convince me this package includes treatment up to 20 times + FOC 10 times. When I didn’t show any interest.. they start to counter proposed me to pay for the HALF first then settle another half if I wan to continue. TMD, keep pestering me today u sign up u will enjoy what what what 1st timer exclusive treatment.

Finally I run away from that boutique. But the haunting never ends.. keep calling me up for a week.. I never answer.

Now I know how the price range for slimming is and I had satisfied my curiosity.

too quiet lately

I know I’m quiet lately, apparently I am really busy. Apart from the busy office work and attending never ending site meetings, I seldom online during office hours nowadays. I’m unable to online at night bcos my sis went to China for attachment, bringing along her laptop! That’s the reason why I’m inactive recently.. anywhere, thanks for the concern for those who wonders how am I doing. I’m doing well loh.. but too much issues in my brain now.

Besides the sickening works, I have to put in my time and effort into our ROM preparation, the customary banquet consideration and the most tiring – house hunting!

I have made an understanding to my manager that I would probably taking more annual leave during these 2 months and hopefully reduce the chances to attend site meeting in order to prevent the sun-tan !! The countdown days are nearly 50 days from my ROM now, what I can do is less outdoor sun-tanning at site and eat lesser.

One of my department colleague decided not to renew her WP and I wish the new colleague can follow up her work very soon, however it all depends on how fast I can teach and how far she can understand. Lots of calls from site and client's engineer had been pressurize me too much, to be frank, I can’t follow up.. no time and no energy. We are the MAJOR precast supplier for government projects from 2008 till 2010. It is a good news to the boss but can we cope? Even the structural head from autority came here to see if we are capable to handle and financially stable to support government projects.

Read newspaper about blogger or facabook users get into trouble when they posted some photos or articles in no means but later lost their job or having court case. So.. I’m going to delete those “recycle bin” articles that I always mentioned someone as BASTARD.. ahahhahahahahhaaaaaaaaa

Another WooHa issue lately is the escaped militant suspect, making the causeway JAM JAM JAM. My motorist colleague was stuck at 2nd link for 3 hours before he reached his home at Gelang Patah. I saw the longggggggg queue of Lorries stretch along AYE towards 2nd link at 8pm last night. Would the suspect try his luck to flee to M’sia if he knows that the security check at custom is 100% now?

A bit long? Hm.. I don’t have much to write lah.. ha.. one thing surprised me and then shocked me is knowing someone is going GREECE for 2 weeks vacation!! THAT'S COOL loh !!

for updates regarding my rom and others shall be upated in another blog..

It's time to say ...

Ladies & Gentlemen,

It's time to say "I DO" !!

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有点孤僻的我

发现自己一些问题, 在人群中变得安静
话说得不多, 要把话题聊开, 有点困难
以前是, 喝着绿茶, 吃着蜀片
现在是, 喝着啤酒, 握着香烟
这样的步伐, 我没有赶上, 也没有学上
所以.. 有一种距离

不是, 如今有归宿的就不曾心碎过
不是, 如今心碎的就不会再有心动

不是, 吞云吐雾就显得厉练并且烦恼很多
不是, 清水淡茶就表示生活愉快没有烦恼

每个人的际遇不同, 习惯也不一样
下意识地找相同的人一起分享
也不为过
我真心希望你们都会更好
毕竟往前看, 往前走才是最实际的

不知道要怎么说, 随便写写.
明白就好.

忙碌的跨年

不好意思, 先跟大家打声招呼~ 好久不见

如果您曾经不厌其烦地光临寒舍, 然后一次又一次的失望, i'm sorry >_<
交代一下, 最近很忙. 有了闲情缺了逸致, 一言难尽.

上一次的公司聚餐, 说好听是Annual Dinner + New Year Party, 就是觉得只是老板用来show off自己是什么又什么club的有钱人. 一群"刷姑"样的我们在几十张桌子的人群中现得格格不入. 各得其乐也称得上慰劳宴? 也太轻视员工了吧. 离开的早, 开车经过滨海湾, 黑压压的, 不知有多少人在等待那瞬间的烟火? 午夜前回到tiong bahru, 虽然看不见滨海湾的烟火, 却听见炮响声如audio surrounding, 看见前方mount faber的点点烟花. 还是有过节的气氛啦.

之后, 工作很忙.. 一个礼拜要跑几个site meeting.. 搞到头很昏.. 快要被各路人马逼死了!! meeting回来屁股还没坐热, 又被老板们使来唤去. Anywhere, 我还是很积极地面对, 兵来将挡, 我不怕你的咯. 公事也不想写太多, 免得大家看得烦.. 总之.. I still can handle.

参与了一个晚宴, 主办单位是新山的乐心善舍, 为洗肾中心募款. 乐心善舍的成立是帮助有所需要的人, 不久前在皇后花园开了第一间洗肾中心, 目前有8台洗肾机. 会上有表演, 有募款, 有访问, 还有录制片段.. 感觉很像NKF show. 关于乐心善舍.. 以后有机会再介绍吧.

有天晚上跟大家吃火锅时才爆出某友人就在当天注册结婚了. 惊讶的程度不小, 但为同桌子的两个友人不值, 竟然在问对方晚上是否吃火锅时才告知"不行, 我今天刚注册". 那种心情, 是何等滋味呀..还是好朋友勒. 心底还是得现上祝福.. 祝你们永远幸福快乐.

不知道是没有话题, 还是standard question, 逢人必被问几时结婚, 我脸上有写着"我要嫁了!" 吗? 那么..既然大家都那么迫切想知道.. 好咯.. 要来廖. 等一下.. 再等一下就有廖.

放工后陆陆续续把咖啡王子看完, 嘻嘻哈哈的超开心, 非常好的减压方式. 现在考虑要不要继续看溏心风暴. 老实说工作压力太大了, 如果晚上再追着剧情咬牙切齿的溏心, 我不疯掉才怪!

眼看农历新年就在两个星期后, 却一点感觉也没有. 公司休息4天.. 还要拿compulsory leave.

过年后, 我会更忙!!